How to Design a Custom Engagement Ring
Designing a custom engagement ring isn't just about jewellery, it's storytelling. It's the freedom to choose exactly what your partner loves, the chance to craft something that speaks to your shared journey, and it's more accessible than most people expect.
If you haven't found your dream ring on any display, that's usually because it's still waiting to be created.
Why Go Custom?
More couples across Australia are embracing custom engagement rings, for a few genuine reasons:
- You get a ring that's genuinely unique
- It reflects your partner's actual personality and style
- You control design, budget, and timeline
- It tends to feel more meaningful than an off-the-shelf piece
Whether you're picturing a classic solitaire with subtle personal touches, or something more sculptural inspired by architecture or nature, custom gives you that freedom. We guide you from the first sketch through to the final piece.
Step 1: Start With the Stone
Choosing your centre stone is the first major decision. We specialise in lab-grown diamonds and moissanite, both offering genuine brilliance without mined diamond's inflated premium.
Lab-grown diamonds — classic, chemically identical to mined diamonds, well suited to traditionalists.
Moissanite — more fire and brilliance, more affordable, loved for its bold sparkle.
Precision custom cutting is also available. A 2.3ct marquise with French tips, or a 1.8ct oval with exact symmetry and claw prongs, both entirely possible.
Step 2: Choose Your Cut and Shape
Every shape carries its own character:
- Oval — elegant, elongating
- Emerald — sleek, architectural
- Round — classic, symmetrical
- Pear — romantic, distinctive
Asscher, princess, radiant, cushion and marquise each bring their own personality too. Custom design also means you're not locked into generic proportions, length-to-width ratio and facet pattern can both be adjusted to suit your exact vision.
Step 3: Define the Setting Style
Once your stone is chosen, think about the structure that holds it. Some clients arrive with a general idea ("I love East-West rings"); others bring detailed inspiration. Either way, CAD models and 3D renderings let you see the design clearly before committing.
Popular styles to customise:
- Solitaire — clean, sculptural focus on the stone
- Three-stone — side stones enhancing the centre
- Hidden halo — sparkle tucked beneath the main stone
- Bezel or half-bezel — sleek and secure
- Cathedral or pavé — added lift or extra brilliance
All our rings use refined claw prongs, well beyond the bulkier traditional settings of the past.
Step 4: Select Your Metal
Metal isn't just colour, it affects tone, weight and longevity:
- Platinum — cool-toned, naturally hypoallergenic, premium
- 18K white gold — bright, versatile
- 18K yellow gold — warm, traditional
- 18K rose gold — romantic, soft
Every metal we use is solid, never plated, and band width, height and tapering are all adjustable. A bolder look might mean a 2.2mm band; something daintier could sit around 1.5mm with rounded edges.
Step 5: Personal Touches
This is where custom design genuinely shines:
- Hidden birthstones inside the band
- Engraved phrases, dates, or coordinates
- Vintage-inspired milgrain or filigree detail
- A low-profile setting for everyday practicality
- Alignment with a future matching wedding band
- Unconventional stone orientation (east-west, diagonal) or mixed shapes, a pear centre with trillion-cut sides, for example
Step 6: See It Come to Life
Once your design is finalised, realistic CAD images from every angle let you review it properly. You can approve as is, request changes, or join a live video consult to go through every detail together. Once approved, your ring is handcrafted by expert jewellers in Australia, typically within 4 to 6 weeks, quality-checked, photographed, and shipped in luxury packaging with certification.
Step 7: Try It On, Virtually or In Person
Before production, you can:
- Join a virtual consultation with real-time stone comparisons
- Book an in-showroom appointment in Perth
- Get guidance via WhatsApp, email, or video, whatever suits your situation
You'll see how the stone performs under different lighting, get every customisation choice explained plainly, and receive honest advice throughout.
Real Couples, Real Designs
One couple asked for a ring echoing their favourite hiking trail, we engraved the coordinates inside the band and used a marquise moissanite to reflect the mountain ridge.
Another client wanted her grandmother's 1940s design reimagined for modern wearability, we recreated the scalloped basket in platinum and added a hidden halo to lift the overall look.
Custom doesn't need to mean flashy, it just needs to feel right.
Frequently Asked Questions
How much does a custom engagement ring cost?
Prices vary by stone and materials. Custom moissanite rings typically start from around $1,800 to $2,500; lab-grown diamond customs range from approximately $3,000 to $6,000 or more. You control where the budget goes.
How long does the process take?
Approximately 4 to 6 weeks from design approval. If you need it faster, let us know and we'll do what we can.
Can I start without knowing exactly what I want?
Yes, that's genuinely what the process is for. A Pinterest photo or a rough sketch is a perfectly good starting point.
Do I need to visit in person?
Not at all. The entire design process can be completed online or over video if you're outside Perth.
Can I customise an existing VYOR Diamond Lab design instead of starting from scratch?
Absolutely, stone size, shape, setting height and more can all be adjusted from any existing design.
Let's create something unforgettable together. Book a design consultation at our Wembley showroom or online, whether you're building from scratch or evolving a favourite.





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